Divorce, A Survival Guide

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Resistance and Your Child Custody or Divorce Action

You cannot go through a divorce or child custody action without resistance. Let me give you just a few examples. Case oriented/permanent issues, such as: 1. I don’t want to share custody of my children; 2. I don’t want to give up any of my assets to my spouse in ...

IS YOUR SPOUSE HIDING MONEY?

Finding Hidden Money and Assets is not Rocket Science. Most Spouses who try to hide Money or other assets do a sloppy job and are easily caught. The keys to finding hidden assets are persistence and time. If you don’t have both available, you may want to consider hiring someone ...

THE PERFECT PARENTING PLAN

A proper Custodial Parenting Plan is essential to establish a solid basis for a healthy, cooperative exchange of the children. The best plan is actually “No Plan.” It consists of two parents who are able to communicate so well and who are so cooperative that they respect each other’s wishes ...

DRESS FOR SUCCESS

I am always surprised at how little time Parents put into deciding what to wear to Family Law Court when facing a Child Custody Battle. I see Fathers in T-shirts, cut offs, shirts hanging out, flip flops and in general, beachwear or sports wear. Dads, do you really think you ...

END YOUR SUFFERING

Did you know that you have control over how much you choose to suffer in your Child Custody or Divorce Action? When you break it down to the simplest form, “All suffering comes from attachment,” you will have the key to releasing your suffering. Let’s analyze this concept in terms ...

DO’S AND DON’TS

Here are a few Do’s and Don’ts when it comes to Children and child custody or divorce actions. They are pretty simple and should be obvious, however easily overlooked. 1. NEVER ARGUE IN FRONT OF THE CHILDREN. The children are frightened enough about the fact that their world is being ...

WINNING CUSTODY VS BEST INTERESTS

Many authors, including myself, write books for Mothers and books for Fathers with the sole purpose of teaching them “How to Win Child Custody.” We occasionally receive comments from angry parents asking how can we ignore what is in the Best Interests of the Child, by instead telling Mothers or ...

HISTRIONICS AND CHILD CUSTODY

The definition of Histrionics for our purposes is that of being excessively emotional, dramatic, seeking attention, and similar immature behaviors. It is very difficult to keep the emotions at bay when discussing your children. This is particularly true when you are fighting for their custody and truly believe they should ...

THE ULTIMATE PARENTING PLAN

Whether You and the other parent are getting along, or whether your relationship has deteriorated into a battle, having a detailed Parenting Plan is essential to protect your custodial rights and the rights of your children. I have spent many years preparing and perfecting what I consider the “Ultimate Parenting ...