CUSTODY AND DIVORCE, GETTING YOUR LIFE IN ORDER

Enduring a Divorce, especially if it includes a child custody struggle, is like getting run over by a Mack Truck not once, but on a daily basis. Emotions are out of control and concentration for any length of time is impossible.  Fear is always lurking – Fear of the unknown, ...

FEAR, GREED AND POWER IN CHILD CUSTODY

Fear, Greed and the Desire for Power are the cause of  continuous conflict,  particularly when the relationship is the center of a divorce or child custody action. Each emotion has its own traits in custody litigation which Fathers and Mothers should look for and control in they wish to win ...

WHAT NOT TO DO IN A CUSTODY EVALUATION

  We often discuss what you should do in a child custody evaluation, however often we neglect the “don’ts” which are just as important to win your child custody case. A custody evaluation can take several forms.  It may be conducted by a counselor working for the court system, or a ...

QUIT WHINING AND TAKE ACTION

CHILD CUSTODY SEEKERS: You will have to excuse my soap box this week; however it seems to be the week of Whiners.  We have turned into a nation of “complainers,” rather than “doers.” Mothers and Fathers going through a Child Custody Battle love to join and participate in Support Groups, Forums, ...

HOW RESISTANCE HURTS CHILD CUSTODY CASES

Neither Mothers Nor Fathers can go through a divorce or child custody action without experiencing some type of Resistance. You ask, what in the heck do you mean by Resistance?  Let me show you a couple of types: Some Tpical Permanent Issues are: 1. I don’t want to share custody of my ...

DO’S AND DON’TS

Here are a few Do’s and Don’ts when it comes to Children and child custody or divorce actions. They are pretty simple and should be obvious, however easily overlooked. 1. NEVER ARGUE IN FRONT OF THE CHILDREN. The children are frightened enough about the fact that their world is being ...