DIVORCE AND CUSTODY COACHING WILL GET YOU THERE
• WIN YOUR CASE AND WIN YOUR LIFE BACK
• GET RID OF THE FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN
• CREATE A HEALTHY ENVIRONMENT FOR YOUR KIDS
• STOP THE ENDLESS ATTORNEY’S FEES
A LETTER FROM
DIANNE R. OPHELIA, ESQ.
Dear Friend,
• Do you feel Overwhelmed by the Custody/Divorce Process?
• Are you having trouble concentrating because emotions such as anger, frustration, vengeance sadness and grief have overcome you?
• Are your Children suffering?
• Is your life in limbo, not knowing what to expect now and in the future?
• Do you feel like you are being taken advantage of by the Opposing Side or your Own Attorney?
AS YOUR COACH:
• I will help you prepare your Custody and Divorce Case to Win.
Judges and Evaluators want to know YOU, not your attorney. You need the tools to know How to Win Your Case.
• I will help with co-parenting issues as they arise.
You will learn how to handle the most difficult situations with less stress and in a way that will help you Win your Case. You will no longer make those mistakes or say those things that are later held against you in your case.
• We will work through your divorce and create action plans each step of the way.
I will help you organize your thoughts and desires as well as your documents. We will get your case back on the fast track to get a successful and early resolution.
• You will learn how to efficiently communicate with your attorney.
We want your attorney to give your case the priority it deserves, and without costing you an arm and a leg. Having practiced family law for 30 years, I know what it takes to get your attorney to do their work, in the most efficient manner to get you the best result.
• We will explore all of your issues, problems and concerns.
We will find the best solutions to each as they arise. You need someone to talk to and to work through problems, when they arise, not weeks later. And, you need advice from someone who will help your situation, not make it worse.
• I will be there to guide you before and after court or the custody evaluation.
I will make certain you are totally prepared before you step into the Courtroom or an Evaluator’s office. You don’t have to worry about being embarrassed or not knowing what to do. There will be no more Fear and no more Mistakes.
• You will get straight forward, honest answers to your questions when you need them.
I promise that I will not answer your question with a question. Nor will I give you some far off esoteric answer that has nothing to do with your daily life and daily issues. I give practical, real information.
• With 30 years of divorce and custody experience, I will educate you about your action.
You will get all of the tips, strategies and secrets the insiders have to assure a successful conclusion to your action.
• I will help you avoid common mistakes.
Parents and litigants make bad choices and mistakes which hurt their case. Often they can never recover from some or all of the damage they create, just because they didn’t know what were the right words to say or the right actions to take.
• You can express yourself in a safe and confidential environment.
You don’t have to rely upon family, friends or associates to discuss your personal issues. You don’t have to go through your Custody and Divorce Action alone any more. You will always have someone there to talk t
• You can discuss any aspect of your life and your case.
We will proceed as fast or as slow as you desire. I will take you as far as you want to go.
I AM HERE TO PERSONALLY GET YOU THROUGH THIS DIFFICULT JOURNEY.
You will emerge with Self-confidence, joy and a bright future.
There is no Better Place to Protect You and Your Children, and to Have Someone who Will Really Care About Your Case Than the Right Coach.
COACHING IS APPROPRIATE AT ANY STAGE OF YOUR ACTION AND AT ANY STAGE OF YOUR LIFE.
1. IF YOU ARE JUST THINKING ABOUT SEPARATING OR DIVORCE:
Coaching helps you talk through your emotions and concerns to determine if you really want to proceed or not.
We explore all aspects of your life and your situation, including what you need in order to make this most important decision.
And, if you don’t want the divorce, we will talk about strategies to stop it.
2. IF YOU ARE READY TO GO FORWARD WITH YOUR ACTION:
Coaching will give you insight about what actions you should take prior to filing and just after you begin your case.
We discuss what you should or should not say, what actions you should or should not take and how you can best protect yourself, your children and your estate.
Taking the right actions at the beginning of your case can make a major difference in the ultimate success or failure of your action and your children.
3. IF YOU ARE IN THE MIDDLE OF YOUR ACTION:
Particularly when you feel like your case is going nowhere, or even worse, is going downhill, coaching will help give you directions to your action.
You will learn how to discuss issues with your lawyer, if you have one, to get back on track.
We will develop a plan and set strategies necessary to get through your action with the least amount of trauma and with resounding succes
You will get all of the help, and tools you need to obtain a winning attitude and outcome.
All of your questions will be answered along the way and you will receive direction at each stage of your action to be certain you are saying and doing what is necessary to succeed and not jeopardize your case.
4. AT THE END OF YOUR ACTION:
You will be guided through all of the issues which must be addressed before you can get on with your life.
This includes a financial plan, changing beneficiaries, deeds, pink slips, setting up new accounts, step parent concerns, co-parenting skills and numerous other issues which, if not addressed, will create havoc as time goes by.
5. PARENTAL CONCERNS AFTER YOUR ACTION IS CONCLUDED:
We address ongoing parenting issues, how to transfer the kids easily, how to address issues which arise with the children and the new situations they must face.
We will discuss how to approach the new person in your life with your children and as well as the new person in your spouse’s life.
We address discipline problems with the children living in separate households.
Finally, we will work through issues surrounding payment or collection of alimony or child support and so many more issues and concerns which pop up when least expected.
I Want to Help You Get the Most that You Can Out of your Child Custody or Divorce Action
How Attorney’s practice and How the Judicial System administers Justice has dramatically changed during the 30 years that I have litigated Family Law Cases.
• In Years Past, Attorneys knew their “stuff.” They took the time to educate their clients about what they may expect, how their case was unique. They gave their clients all of the information and tools they needed to obtain a Winning result. They cared about their clients and the outcome of their cases. They did their work, and got the client through the system as fast as possible.
• In Years Past, Judges were well versed in all areas of the law, and were older and “well seasoned.” They had been successful lawyers for many years and had life experiences to help them make well thought out decisions. They were “giving back” at the end of their careers by helping people resolve their cases.
• In Years Past, Courts were efficient. Documents were filed correctly and on time. One could obtain a Hearing or a Trial within weeks. An educated, intelligent, caring Judge would take the time necessary to hear all of the facts of the case before making their decision. People and cases weren’t rushed through the system like a herd of cattle.
I don’t have to tell you how different Attorneys, Judges and Courts are Today.
Before you give up entirely and throw in the towel, there is a Silver Lining. Today a Good Divorce and Custody Coach will fill in the gaps that the current system has created.
Don’t be taken advantage of by the other Side because you don’t have a Winning Strategy.
• Get Informed,
• Get Prepared
• And Take Positive Action,
• to Make Your Life a Better One
• Now and for Years to Come.
Want More Information?
—-Visit my “Areas” page to learn about some of the many subject matters that can be covered in coaching sessions,
—-Visit my “FAQs” page for questions and answers about Coaching,
—-Visit my “About” page to learn about my qualifications, why I chose to become a coach and my mission in coaching
—–Visit my “Testimonials” page to hear from others who were in your position.
I have been litigating Divorce and Custody cases for over 30 years.
I have been there for thousands of clients who experienced exactly what you are going through
Until recently, there has been nowhere for you to turn.
No one was there for you.
Happily, this is changing.
Experienced professionals are giving back to the community, and I am one of them.
THE BEST NEWS IS . . .
Your Coaching Sessions Can Begin Immediately At Your Convenience In Your Own Home
I chose One-on-One Telephone or Skype Video Coaching For the Following reasons:
1. I can help you regardless of where you live;
2. The Sessions are in the comfort and privacy of your own home or office.
3. You have the opportunity to request an appointment before or after work or on weekends.
4. Often coaching sessions can be set the same day or the day after your request.
5. Sessions can be as frequent as you desire.
6. Sessions are designed to give you a fast, efficient and economical method of accomplishing your goals.
WHAT DOES COACHING COST?
One Hour Session – $300.00
Fees are payable through the secure Pay Pal System by Credit Card, Billing Invoice or Pay Pal account.
SO LET’S GET STARTED!
Email me at DianneOphelia@gmail.com and let me know you are interested in coaching services.
We will arrange a short introductory telephone or video call, at no cost, to discuss the coaching procedure and answer any questions you may have.
*Please note, this call is only about coaching procedure, no details of your case will be discussed until the first formal coaching session.
We will then schedule the first coaching session and will set future sessions at the end of each session, depending upon your needs and time frame.
WARNING: the purpose of coaching is to help you through the process and help you to formulate a plan and questions for your attorney. Legal Advice about your particular case is NOT given during coaching sessions.
To your success,
Dianne R. Ophelia, Attorney at Law
“The 30 Year Expert”